Unmatched Attractions of Dating Women with Children
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What's so attractive about women with kids?
Your friends think you’re crazy. Maybe you are. You’re young, carefree, and not even close to ready to settle down. Yet you’ve met a great woman who happens to be a single mom.
Run, your friends say. They have a long list of reasons. But whether you tell them or not, you’re coming up with a list of your own. A list of reasons women with children are awesome.
Maturity
Nothing tosses a young woman deep into womanhood like becoming a mom. Her life is filled with changing diapers and midnight feedings. There’s no more time to giggle into the phone with her friends. As her kids grow, she’ll develop a wisdom and depth far beyond that of her childless peers. Not only is she a mom, she’s a single mom, which forces her to juggle various responsibilities and focus only on what’s important in life.
She’ll make a great mom
If you plan on having kids someday, what better way to see what kind of mom she’ll be than to watch her with her kids?
She’ll be less needy
Single men frequently complain about clingy, needy women. Women with children are less likely to get upset if you forget to call. They’re usually too busy taking care of their obligations. And what can be more attractive than an independent woman who doesn’t sit by the phone, waiting for you to call?
She’s more money-conscious
Most women with children are used to budgeting. They don’t expect you to spend vast amounts of money on dates, and they certainly won’t frivolously spend your money. They’ve learned the value of a hard-earned dollar and are much more reluctant to waste it.
She’s happy with a quiet night in
Many women with children prefer Chinese takeout on the sofa to drinking and dancing until the bars close. If you’ve reached the point in your life when you’re ready to settle down and tired of the bar scene, a single mom may be the best thing to ever happen to you.
The pressure’s off
We’ve all met that twenty-something woman who has a timeline for her life. She wants to be married by twenty-five, have her first child by twenty-eight, start planning the third one by her early thirties… Women with children generally don’t have that ticking clock. They’re more laid-back about family, which can free you up to find out if you’re truly compatible.
Single moms make great wives
If the last girl you dated found microwavable popcorn challenging, it might be a relief to meet someone who knows how to make a meal. If she’s a single mom, chances are she knows how to cook. And do laundry. And wash a dish. And maybe even run the vacuum every now and then. Not that you need someone to do all these things, but it can be refreshing to at least have a decent meal every now and then that doesn’t come from a restaurant.
Single moms are people, too
In the end, it all comes down to individual people. No two single moms are alike, just as no two single, childless women are alike. If you refuse to even consider dating women with children, how many great women will you miss out on? What if one of those great women happens to be someone who’s your perfect match?
